obviously i get a big fat FAIL regarding 1)updating my blog ever 2) sticking to p90x lean (haha) and 3) just making wedding related decisions.
hopefully this weekend will change at least one of the 3 i just mentioned. heading up to tallahassee tomorrow to meet the florist, chat with the caterer and potentially ask my older brother to officiate our wedding. if we can accomplish all of those things, i will have a huge burden lifted from my shoulders.
i’ve warmed up the folks (a bit) to not using their pastor, but hopefully we don’t have to have hours long discussions over the particulars of a marriage and why they feel it’s important for it to be a real live minister marrying us. not that we don’t want our ceremony to be religious, we just want the person who is declaring us married to know us, love us and epitomize what we believe marriage takes to withstand good and bad times. (i need to remember this point for any discussions that may come up)



